QUOTE(rabbidogg @ Mar 13 2005, 08:43 PM)
A little harsh that, wasn't it Chris? In the first post you stated that members should "Feel free to leave comments/complaints/suggestions" and now people are doing that, and you get all angry

I personally love the site and have fallen in love with the new layout. I know it's your site and you should feel proud of the great decisions you've made here on SP, but when a good member like Jack poses a decent suggestion, you may have given a little bit of a tough reaction don't ya think??
maybe? Just a bit...?

you are right.
And oddly enough i hav an explanation for it all as well.
you see, Right now there are several issues regarding the server move. Frankly, SP is too big. So i am stuck paying two bills until SP is moved. This creates some pressure.
Rewriting the site, with 9 people asking me shit about it, that becomes pressure.
Having 120 accounts banned for spamming in the last three days.. that adds frustration.
Having a few of those people email me saying im a jerk for banning them.. that adds frustration.
Personal issues i have lately.. again. Pressure.
Then i get a guy, who you are right, didnt deserve what i said to him, (i have apoligized) questioning what i thought to be the one surefire decision lately.
Hit a nerve. Im only human. I cant be nice and make sure every members tucked in at night just right all the time. Im supposed to be done college, a bit of a breather, but i havent slept in days, havent eaten, im on a caffiene binge that is massive, and i have 25 actual paying clients wondering why their server is crashing every 15 minutes. and they have a right to do that. But i have to suck up to them too.
Dunno if this is understandable. but hey. thats me.